I’m a BIG Loser…
As I sit here watching The Biggest Loser, I’m realizing that it can actually be a good thing to be a “loser.” Ironically, I’ve always wanted to be a winner. Whether it was finishing a test first in class or becoming a Little League all-star, I always tried to be at the front of the pack. Frankly, I’ve never really been at the very front…I usually landed somewhere one or two people back from the front. This always kept me striving to be better and better…whatever I was part of.
These days, I’ve been losing more things than anything else.
- I’ve lost all the stress from leading a traditional church.
- I’ve lost the need to please so many people.
- I’ve lost a need for the adrenaline of success.
- I’ve lost friendships that turned out to be relationships of convenience.
- I’ve lost a workaholism that was killing my family.
- I’ve lost a sedentary lifestyle.
- I’ve lost a spirituality that centered around church activities.
- I’ve lost a roommate and gained an intimate partnership with my wife.
I’m a BIG LOSER! Of course, I’ve replaced many of these losses with things that are more healthy and genuine.
How about you? What do you need to lose? What would it take to lose it?
wow…..so true. I too, really resonate with many of the same loses. But it’s so true….makes room for something more healthy and genuine. I’m thankful for these types of loses, especially if it ushers in something more real!
I think I’m a BIG LOSER because only think of myself sometimes. My job has taken over my life. I have a great family and belong to a great church. Making time is not an option it seems. I want to break away and have time. I get invited to sing at churches in my area just don’t have time. I miss family events. I feel the way the world is today, if I don’t give 110% at my job I will be replaced……… Many times I take for granted just what the Lord has done for me. I’ve been speaking with my pastor on some of the thoughts I have. God has something great in store for me but just understanding what it is , well……