Hard Choice #1 – “I Shut My Mouth”
Over the next week, Laura and I will be sharing 5 Hard Choices We Made During Our Reconciliation. These are key ways that we were able to deal with the pain and brokenness in our marriage instead of simply sweeping it under the rug. Whether you’re dealing with overcoming an affair or simply trying to develop a more intimate relationship, we hope these choices may be beneficial to you as well. Feel free to watch the short video or read a few insights below.
Hard Choice #1 – “I Shut My Mouth”
Since I tended to be more of the outspoken, aggressive one in our relationship, it became clear that I needed to shut my mouth during the reconciliation process. Laura often took a backseat role in our relationship, and I needed to give her the freedom to set the pace. As I stepped aside, she began to take more initiative in our relationship.
Instead of me trying to push my agenda and lead the reconciliation, I shut my mouth. Although I was able to be clear about my intentions, I didn’t want to manipulate her or cause something to progress more quickly than she was comfortable with.
Dave and Laura, thanks for talking about your journey. I know this will inspire and encourage others. so proud of how you guys are doing!
Thanks Dave. We feel like it's time to share our learnings and reach out to people in need. We're enjoying a new season in our family, and we're loving life.
just felt the need to tell you that you have an amazing wife. Can't imagine the courage & leap of faith it must have taken on her part to be able to forgive & tell about it today.
Angela – you are correct! She is amazing!